That's right, people. We're getting it out of the way. Rich or poor, shoppaholic or cheapskate, no one likes to talk about money. So the number one way to have a positive planning experience is to build a budget.
You may have family members try to avoid it by saying "We'll cross that bridge when we come to it." Don't listen. You'll end up falling off the bridge and drowning in your DIY wedding punch. Just follow these simple steps to create the perfect budget for your perfect wedding.
1. Prioritize: Make a list of all the things you want for your big day and organize them into three categories:
A. Basics: Must haves for every wedding. Food, flowers, ceremony site, etc.
B. Details: These can be anything from just a few candles to chandeliers hanging over every table.
C. Splurges: This special category is for that little girl inside you that dreamed of having your reception at the Taj Mahal. It may take a little bit of savings and fairy dust but you can't live without it.
A. Basics: Must haves for every wedding. Food, flowers, ceremony site, etc.
B. Details: These can be anything from just a few candles to chandeliers hanging over every table.
C. Splurges: This special category is for that little girl inside you that dreamed of having your reception at the Taj Mahal. It may take a little bit of savings and fairy dust but you can't live without it.
2. Delegate: Assign parts of the budget to the groom's and bride's family. It doesn't have to be perfectly equal, it just needs to make sure everyone feels involved and comfortable. You can go the traditional route or customize it to fit your needs.
3. Start saving: Even if you aren't responsible for a single penny of the budget it's always a good idea to have a backup plan.
4. Be realistic: Don't ask too much of your family. Odds are they are even more stressed than you. If you know something is out of their price range, discuss it first or find a budget friendly alternative.
5. Stick to the plan: Set a certain spending amount for each item and try not to stray from it.
6. Do your research: Talk with other brides and research different vendors so you can get a basic idea of pricing for each service.
There you have it! My short, simple list for a reasonable budget!
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